The dating website LavaLife has a funny list of stuff women LOVE talking about but men HATE. Some of it's kind of clichéd . . . like shoes and diets . . . but a few of them are kind of interesting. Here are the top four.
#1.) Gossip. This one's kind of obvious too, but it's not just CELEBRITY gossip. It's gossip about people you KNOW too. According to Kate White from "Cosmo", quote, "It makes [men] seriously question what kind of a friend you are."
#2.) People He Doesn't Know. Or people he BARELY knows. LavaLife says that when you're talking about someone who doesn't really have an effect on either of your lives, most guys see it as a pointless conversation.
#3.) What You're Doing, WHILE You're Doing It. Apparently women like to capture a moment with words. So if you're at a concert, a woman is more likely to say something like, "I really love this music" or "I'm having a great time."
--But White says men prefer EXPERIENCING the moment, not getting a play-by-play . . . unless they're watching sports.
#4.) Anything Negative About His Friends. Women don't like hearing bad stuff about THEIR friends either. But this kind of goes hand-in-hand with gossiping. Guys tend to rip on their friends to their FACE, not behind their back.
--So when you say something bad about one of them, he probably gets defensive, because it makes him feel like he's not being loyal to them. (LavaLife)